Pregnancy Drama

So, In my quest to make life easier I have been shot down & overridden way too many times & it's kind of wearing on my nerves. I said no to a crib because we don't have enough space... We now have a crib. Now, I'm being told no to cloth diapering because "It's too much work & it's gross" Really?! Because I'm not going to be doing the majority of the diapering or anything.. I'm trying to figure out why EVERYONE ELSE seems to have a say in what I'm doing with my kid but me. I feel forced into doing things & honestly it's just pissing me off..